Keep Your Teenager Focused this Holiday Season

If kids are doing well in school, they don’t want to fizzle out now. It is important to keep the momentum going. If they have been struggling, now is the most important time to dedicate themselves to academic success.

Final exams and university applications do not vanish during the holiday season, either. Parents should watch closely to make certain their teen completes the school year on a strong note. The following suggestions may go a long way to helping you keep your teenager focused and on track through the new year.

Prioritize

During the holidays, maintaining schedules can be hectic. Stay organized with a plan and calendar to prioritize deadlines, exams, and studying time. Creating a daily plan with sufficient time for studying and assignments helps avoid last-minute stress. Utilize this time effectively to prevent overwhelm in the final weeks of the semester. Some parents find Google Calendar beneficial to track their teen’s progress without nagging.

Acknowledge the spirit of the holidays

Recognize that there is a heightened excitement this time of year. Be sure to make good use of the season’s enthusiasm to motivate your teen. “Don’t ignore that the energy in the air is all about the holidays coming up,” says Megan Bradfield, a life coach and Tutors on Call parent with teenagers at home. “Surprise your teen between English and Maths with a hot chocolate or talk about what gifts they should get friends or family.”

Parents can also make good use of the holiday spirit to engage their teens in service-learning activities. Volunteering at a soup kitchen or donating gifts to a needy family gets students involved in their community and helps parents promote strong values. It also helps to generate experience for university applications and valuable source material for essays.

Keep looking forward

The months of December and January are often a time to reflect on the past year; however, parents should also encourage students to focus on what is in front of them. For some students, this may mean earnestly starting the university search. For others, it might mean finishing university essays, submitting applications, and researching financial aid options. Finally, the holidays may be the perfect time for some students to start giving some serious thought about internships, camps, or classes they want to participate in over the summer.

Final thoughts

In a nutshell, the holidays provide an ideal opportunity for students to reflect on how they will continue to explore themselves and their interests while building a strong collegiate profile. Parents are called upon to help keep their teens focused on the activities essential for propelling themselves toward their higher education goals.